We’ve all been criticized, and we have all leveled criticism at others, both directly and indirectly. This week, I ran across a quote that expresses my personal opinion about this topic extremely effectively. And, just because it is my philosophy, doesn’t mean I always live it very well. . . which is why I am

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It was a typical business trip. I’d spent the day training a group of people from inside an organization. After the training, I was invited to join the group for dinner. After a lovely dinner, a couple of the participants had some additional questions about the training and how to apply what they were learning.

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Flashback to my kidhood  . . .  I’ve just made some error or mistake, and I am being made aware of that error by one of my parents.  At the end of the conversation, they ask me . . . Did you learn your lesson? I’m guessing that my flashback is your flashback too –

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This week’s Resource Recommendation is Read This Before Our Next Meeting by Al Pittampalli. If you ever get frustrated by meetings, feel like the meetings you go to are too long, too chaotic, and not a valuable, productive use of your time, this book is for you. This book makes a short point; it proceeds

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I’ve featured William James, the father of American Psychology here before  (most recent, further back).  Today,  another powerful thought from him. I think after you read it, reflect and the questions and take the actions I suggest, you will be glad I did. “Act as if what you do makes a difference. It does.”  –William James

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  In Tim Sander’s blog he closed his post yesterday with a quote from Stanley Marcus Jr, long time chairman of the retailer Neiman-Marcus. “You will never get dumber by making someone else smarter.”  – Stanley Marcus, Jr.   Questions to Ponder Do I agree with Marcus? What learning can I share with others? How

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People often talk increasing the return on investment for training, and generally, most people point to others to be responsible for that return, or measure that return.  The reality is that there are three groups and one other factor that have significant impact on that rate of return, and they work together like the four

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William James has been called “the father of American Psychology.”  He was a trained physician and wrote voluminously. (Interestingly enough Ralph Waldo Emerson was his Godfather).   He is most known for his self-trained work in psychology and philosophy.  He is widely quoted 100 years after his death, and nothing he wrote is any more quoted that the powerful quotation that

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In any coaching workshop I lead, or in any conversation with leaders that turns to coaching, the discussion of positive feedback will ensue.  Here are just a smattering of the questions that come up. How much positive feedback should be given? Don’t people already know if they are doing it well? If I give them

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In our Bud to Boss Workshop, designed to help leaders successfully navigate the transition to leadership, we talk about the importance of relationships between leaders and their team members. Within the least year or so I have been frequently asked two related questions: “When we were peers I was friends with people on Facebook. Now

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