In the next couple of days you will see people of all ages dressed in costumes.  Perhaps you will even don one yourself.  Whether you are staying home and handing out the goodies, or hosting or going to a Halloween party, I have a leadership challenge and opportunity for you.

This challenge can be accepted regardless of how you feel about costumes or this holiday.  If can be something you do informally for a couple of minutes, or it could spur deeper thought for you over the next several days.

Don’t be scared – regardless of how you approach this challenge it should be fun. (Mixing learning and fun together is always a good combination – even better than caramel on apples!)

Are you ready?   It is a bit tricky, but really all treat for a leader who wants to improve. . .

  1. Notice a Halloween costume (whether what you are wearing or someone else)
  2. Think about the attributes of that character.
  3. Translate the attributes to leadership lessons – ask yourself what leadership lesson can be gleaned from that character?
  4. Spend time thinking about that – stretching your mind if it seems difficult.
  5. Determine how you can apply that lesson for yourself.
  6. If you are doing this more formally, write your thoughts and lessons in your learning journal
  7. Repeat for as many costumes/characters as you’d like!

Want an example?

Lady Gaga HalloweenA quick search shows that Lady Gaga is one of the most popular costumes this year.   While I am not a Lady Gaga expert, if I think about her, what leadership lessons might I gain? First, what are a few attributes about her?

  • She is highly creative.
  • She doesn’t seem to care too much about criticism – she follows her plan.
  • She seems to be driven by her goals.
  • She is highly successful in her chosen field.
  • She a very successful marketer.
  • (feel free to add to this list)

And the lessons?

There are multiple leadership lessons in each of the attributes above – I’ll leave it to you to determine what is most meaningful to you.

For me, today, as I write this, I am struck by the creativity, all seemingly focused on her goals of building buzz and selling music and concert tickets.  I am not always that creative in my approaches, and I believe that, as a leader, if I do a better job of this (and/or supporting my team to do more of it as well – both through my example and encouragement) we will collectively get better results.

This insight is meaningful for me, and gives me much to think about – all because I thought about someone in a Lady Gaga costume.

While, as the old commercials said, “your mileage may vary” – not every costume will give you a great insight – not every lesson will be the one you most need right now.

But if you take my Halloween Leadership Challenge, I am confident before November comes you will have at least one great insight to help you become a more effective leader.

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Kevin Eikenberry is a recognized world expert on leadership development and learning and is the Chief Potential Officer of The Kevin Eikenberry Group. He has spent over 30 years helping organizations across North America, and leaders from around the world, on leadership, learning, teams and teamwork, communication and more.

Twice he has been named by Inc.com as one of the Top 100 Leadership and Management Experts in the World and 100 Great Leadership Speakers for Your Next Conference. The American Management Association named him a “Leaders to Watch” and he has been twice named as one of the World's Top 30 Leadership Professionals by Global Gurus. Top Sales World has named him a Top Sales & Marketing Influencer several times, and his blog has been named on many “best of” lists. LeadersHum has named him one of the 200 Biggest Voices in Leadership in 2023.

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  1. Hi Kevin,
    Must take issue with you here. Lady Gaga is all about being outrageous and pulling it off. That’s her leadership lesson. Yet, we note that even a little assertiveness by a woman is liable to be crushed like a bug. Pulling off that assertiveness is quite a challenge (and an art that seems to take way too long to master for some of us). I’ll say assertive, because being outrageous is liable to get most of us gals fired.
    Thanks for your blog. This one was repeated to my Facebook feed after New Year and thus raised the issue again, so I thought it was a sign I needed to respond 😉
    Chris

    1. Chris – Thanks for your insights. Lessons from anyone, me, you, Lady Gaga (anyone!) must always be taken in context. The list of attributes for Lady Gaga made sense to me, and were messages for me (and examples for my suggestion in the post). This doesn’t mean I will be as outrageous as she is, fr example, nor am I suggesting anyone should (or shouldn’t) do that either.

      Respectfully, I’ll submit that the thinking you did that led you to your thought-filled comment, makes my point exactly – that we can learn from others, even if it it means learning what we don’t want to do!

      Thanks for reading – and commenting!

      Kevin 🙂

      1. You are so right about the thinking and where it leads, Kevin. I’m still thinking about it and hoping to take that somewhere! You are an inspiration. Thanks again.
        –chris

  2. Kevin – I thoroughly enjoy your thoughts and leadership exercises, but I’m really struggling with this one. I’m going to be a banana this Halloween. Yep, a full grown man in a leadership position going as a banana. What does that say about me?

    1. Trent – To me it says, you are fun, unconventional and innovative – pretty good leadership traits ifyou ask me! Plus – the hallenge isn’t just about what we wear – but we see others wearing as well.

      I won’t be dressing up at all – and I can still take the challenge!

      Kevin 🙂

  3. I have to admit that I wasn’t sure where this post was going after reading its title. I mean, there are many everyday life situations and events that can be related to the practice of leadership, but.. Halloween and leadership??

    Out of curiosity, I decided to read this post and see whether there was a concrete link that could be made between the two.

    Kevin proves that who you choose to dress up as for Halloween can definitely have something to do with their ability to inspire you, whether this personality is Lady Gaga, Harry Potter or even Michael Jackson.

    This also counters a common misconception on leadership: that it is hard to develop the skill if you are not born with it.

    Anyone with the motivation and the right attitude can develop their leadership by finding inspiration in others. In this case, Kevin invites us to consider Halloween as a challenge, or opportunity to learn from others around us.

    Good job Kevin!

    Alessandra McGovern

  4. Great post. I think it is a fantastic idea to find positive qualities in the Halloween experience AND don’t stop there, how about finding positive qualities in everyday experiences. We have a tendency to think badly of someone when they are different from us. By taking the time to reflect on their qualities, whether we want to emulate them or not, can make us a better informed and intentional person. I myself will be a pig as I hand out candy. And no, it’s not so I can “pig out” on candy as I probably won’t eat any of it. Little kids think a huge pig is funny and not very scary. It gives them a moment to laugh with their parents while enjoying some candy.

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