Helen Hayes quotationHelen Hayes is best known as a legendary actress. Today’s quotation shows her to be more than a talented pretty face, but someone who was wise, at least in part, because she listened to her mother (which I’ve generally found to be pretty good advice, in itself).

“My mother drew a distinction between achievement and success. She said that achievement is the knowledge that you have  studied and worked hard and done the best that is in you. Success is being praised by others. That is nice but not as important or satisfying. Always aim for achievement and forget about success.”
          – Helen Hayes

Questions to Ponder

  • Do you agree with this distinction?
  • Which do you strive for?
  • Which is more valuable?

Action Steps

  1. Pick one activity or task today and then do the following steps.
  2. Study hard.
  3. Be prepared.
  4. Do your best.
  5. Repeat tomorrow

My Thoughts

My predominant thought every time I read this quotation is that Ms. Hayes, by her distinction, is helping people think about what is in their control vs. what isn’t.  Achievement is in your control.

You can study hard.

You can prepare.

You can focus.

You can do your best.

Whether people appreciate that effort, by applause or with any other behaviors, isn’t in your control.

Regardless of whether you agree with this distinction between the words, don’t lose the important distinction about what is in your control and what you can only influence.  Operating more of the time from your sphere of control will make you more productive, create more achievement, and will likely create more success as well.

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Kevin Eikenberry is a recognized world expert on leadership development and learning and is the Chief Potential Officer of The Kevin Eikenberry Group. He has spent over 30 years helping organizations across North America, and leaders from around the world, on leadership, learning, teams and teamwork, communication and more.

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  1. Hi Kevin – In The Strangest Secret, Earl Nightingale defines success as “the progressive realization of a worthy ideal.” I’ve always liked that definition. In that regard, success and achievement are the same to me. Regardless of what other people think, if I am making progress toward a goal I have set for myself or my company, I consider it a success.

  2. Kevin – I think its a great distinction. And really, whether you separate the two or not, we should always be focused on achieving whatever it is we set out to do the best that we can.

    Thanks,
    Jon

  3. I agree though I still have my questions on your definition of success. Achievement is important and it is doing and accomplishing what you have set yourself to do. Success on the other hand is not only having others acknowledge your achievement. It is also felt if you believe that you have flourished in your achievements.

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