Matthew 7:7 reads:  “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.”(NIV)

I was always fascinated by this line for a variety of reasons, including the fact that seeking and knocking start with the curiosity of asking  – and when taking the first letters of the three pieces of advice: ask, seek, knock – you get ask.

So what are you asking  for?

Let me give you a short list of things to consider asking for.

Ask for information.

Ask for ideas.

Ask for an opportunity.

Ask for the sale.

Ask for help.

Ask if people need help.

Ask for forgiveness.

Ask for clarification.

Ask for what you want.

Ask for feedback.

Asking can be an act of daring, but think about how any/all of these questions can make you a more effective human being and leader.

Questions help us learn.

Questions engage others.

Questions make us more real and authentic.

Asking is powerful.

What are you asking for today?

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Kevin Eikenberry is a recognized world expert on leadership development and learning and is the Chief Potential Officer of The Kevin Eikenberry Group. He has spent over 30 years helping organizations across North America, and leaders from around the world, on leadership, learning, teams and teamwork, communication and more.

Twice he has been named by Inc.com as one of the Top 100 Leadership and Management Experts in the World and 100 Great Leadership Speakers for Your Next Conference. The American Management Association named him a “Leaders to Watch” and he has been twice named as one of the World's Top 30 Leadership Professionals by Global Gurus. Top Sales World has named him a Top Sales & Marketing Influencer several times, and his blog has been named on many “best of” lists. LeadersHum has named him one of the 200 Biggest Voices in Leadership in 2023.

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  1. What a great blog post. It is always fun to connect with like-minded people. Every year our family has a “word of the year” and a couple of years ago it was ASK.
    Amazing what you can get when you ask. I write parenting books and I asked an acquaintance who he knew in publishing and Bang..I had a contract.

    Funny thing is though, that I asked myself “how to monetize my wisdom more?” and now I do books on Kindle and make twice as much as with traditional publishers and no hassle!

    Check out http://amzn.to/kindlebyjudy for just a few of the books..You will be glad you did.

    Judy Helm Wright aka Auntie Artichoke, Missoula, MT

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