You Are What You ChooseFrom the front cover flap:

“On the surface, decisions about driving, eating, investing, and voting look very different. Yet the traits model shows that these decisions share many common elements, so that a given person will approach each of them in the same way. This means that the choices about products and people and politics can be combined systematically and used to predict what a person will buy or believe.”

You are likely familiar with the concept of personality, behavioral or communication styles as three of the many models that help us understand ourselves and others. This book introduces a six-part model – TRAITS – to help you understand what factors are valued in most any decision process.

The TRAITS are:

  • Time
  • Risk
  • Altruism
  • Information
  • meToo
  • Stickiness

The book then talks about how to use this information from a marketing and sales perspective to help you target buyers and markets.

While not everything in the book is brand new, there is much that is valuable and the TRAITS model is helpful. In addition, the book uses a wide variety of interesting examples, ala Made to Stick or Freakonomics, which is both smart from a marketing perspective and makes for a better read.

I read this book with two lenses – as a marketer, as I believe the book was intended, but also as a leader. After all, as leaders, we are in the business of not only making decision, but helping others do the same.

The first portion of the book is extremely useful for leaders. The last portion is even more focused on how to use the model from a marketing perspective, and as such may be less relevant from a strictly leadership perspective.

Overall I found the book a good, relatively short, read, and quite useful on several levels. If what I’ve said intrigues you at all, I encourage you to pick up a copy.

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Kevin Eikenberry is a recognized world expert on leadership development and learning and is the Chief Potential Officer of The Kevin Eikenberry Group. He has spent over 30 years helping organizations across North America, and leaders from around the world, on leadership, learning, teams and teamwork, communication and more.

Twice he has been named by Inc.com as one of the Top 100 Leadership and Management Experts in the World and 100 Great Leadership Speakers for Your Next Conference. The American Management Association named him a “Leaders to Watch” and he has been twice named as one of the World's Top 30 Leadership Professionals by Global Gurus. Top Sales World has named him a Top Sales & Marketing Influencer several times, and his blog has been named on many “best of” lists. LeadersHum has named him one of the 200 Biggest Voices in Leadership in 2023.

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