cherWhile you might not think of Cher as a deep philosophical thinker, I’ll make two comments before I share her brilliant insight.

– we can learn from anyone – and the mark of a lifelong learner is having that belief.

– we can definitely learn from people who have achieved significant things, even if their achievements are in far different fields of endeavor than ours (maybe especially if they are).

With that, a comment form the singer, actress and one-of-those-people-who-only-need-one-name.

“If you really want something, you can figure out how to make it happen.
– Cher

Questions to Ponder

What do I really want?

How much time have I spent trying to achieve it?

Action Steps

1.  Get crystal clear on what you want.

2.  Get crystal clear on the benefits you see from achieving it (know your WHY)

3.  Try something.

4.  When you fail, remind yourself of #2 and try again.

5.  Repeat until you achieve success!

Thoughts from Kevin

There is a tremendous leadership lesson in this post, hopefully it is obvious.  As leaders we are also achievers, and so this advice should hit home for us personally.  As a leader though, we can assist, support and influence people through all of the steps listed above.

When you help people, especially with steps 1, 2, and 4 above, you are serving them in amazing ways.  When we provide help with steps 1, 2 and 4 we are doing one of our most important jobs as a leader.  This applies to goal setting, coaching, influence and change.  As you become more adept at these skills, you are on your journey towards being a Remarkable Leader.

photo courtesy of Cher’s Twitter Account

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Kevin Eikenberry is a recognized world expert on leadership development and learning and is the Chief Potential Officer of The Kevin Eikenberry Group. He has spent over 30 years helping organizations across North America, and leaders from around the world, on leadership, learning, teams and teamwork, communication and more.

Twice he has been named by Inc.com as one of the Top 100 Leadership and Management Experts in the World and 100 Great Leadership Speakers for Your Next Conference. The American Management Association named him a “Leaders to Watch” and he has been twice named as one of the World's Top 30 Leadership Professionals by Global Gurus. Top Sales World has named him a Top Sales & Marketing Influencer several times, and his blog has been named on many “best of” lists. LeadersHum has named him one of the 200 Biggest Voices in Leadership in 2023.

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  1. I agree with your two comments and in support of Cher (30 years ago didn’t think I’d hear myself say that!)…she is among a very select few artists who has earned an Oscar, Grammy, Tony, Emmy, and Golden Globe. Oh yeah, she has severe dyslexia and grew up in less-than-ideal circumstances. We all could learn a thing or two from her.

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