I have had the unique opportunity to officiate a wedding—actually, two weddings, both for my nieces who are both named Allie. While this might seem unrelated to leadership, believe me, it isn't. Here are some leadership lessons I picked up from the experience:

Preparation Matters

Speaking in public might be my bread and butter, but for this wedding, I realized preparation was crucial. I put in a lot of time and effort, not just to keep my emotions in check (spoiler: I didn't cry!), but to deliver a ceremony that would be memorable for everyone. In leadership and life, preparation is a non-negotiable.

Never Underestimate Your Skills

People afterward were impressed by my ability to officiate. Truth be told, it was something well within my wheelhouse. We often underestimate our capabilities; don't. Recognize your unique skills, and utilize them to their fullest potential. You might be surprised what you can accomplish!

Be Present

The couple asked everyone to put away their phones and cameras, and I couldn't agree more. Being fully present allows you to truly engage and appreciate the moment, something we often forget in our fast-paced, digital lives. Whether you’re leading a team or attending a wedding, being present is a skill we all should nurture.

I also learned a bonus tip: always remember to let people sit down after the bride is handed off! A good laugh, but also a subtle lesson in being mindful of others' comfort.

To sum it up, whether you're officiating a wedding or leading a team, these lessons are universally applicable. Now, I challenge you to pick one and apply it to your life this week.

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Kevin Eikenberry is a recognized world expert on leadership development and learning and is the Chief Potential Officer of The Kevin Eikenberry Group. He has spent over 30 years helping organizations across North America, and leaders from around the world, on leadership, learning, teams and teamwork, communication and more.

Twice he has been named by Inc.com as one of the Top 100 Leadership and Management Experts in the World and 100 Great Leadership Speakers for Your Next Conference. The American Management Association named him a “Leaders to Watch” and he has been twice named as one of the World's Top 30 Leadership Professionals by Global Gurus. Top Sales World has named him a Top Sales & Marketing Influencer several times, and his blog has been named on many “best of” lists. LeadersHum has named him one of the 200 Biggest Voices in Leadership in 2023.

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