When was the last time you gave yourself a gift?

We often focus on giving gifts to others—especially during the holidays—but how often do we pause and think about the gifts we could give ourselves? Not the material ones like a phone or jewelry, but the kind that enrich our lives, help us grow, and show ourselves a little love and care.

Here’s a short list of meaningful gifts you can give to yourself:

  1. The Gift of Time
    We’re all busy, and it’s easy to let our calendars fill up with obligations. But giving yourself the gift of time—whether for relaxation, reflection, or exercise—can be one of the most rewarding things you can do.
  2. The Gift of a Hobby
    Hobbies give us an outlet for creativity and joy. If you don’t have one, take time to explore and discover something you love. If you already have a hobby but never get to it, prioritize it again—it’s a gift worth giving yourself.
  3. The Gift of Learning
    Want to grow your skills or learn something new? Whether it’s through a class, a book, or even an online masterclass, learning is a gift that keeps on giving.
  4. The Gift of Gratitude
    Gratitude isn’t just for Thanksgiving. Taking the time to recognize the good in your life can bring perspective and positivity.
  5. The Gift of Forgiveness
    Maybe you’ve made mistakes, or perhaps you hold regret about a relationship. Forgive yourself. Let go of the guilt or resentment. Forgiveness is a gift that frees you.
  6. The Gift of Grace
    We’re all human—wonderfully messy and imperfect. Give yourself grace when things don’t go as planned. You deserve it.

Giving to others is an act of love and generosity—but don’t forget to extend that same kindness to yourself. The gifts of time, learning, gratitude, forgiveness, and grace are not just luxuries; they’re necessities for living a fulfilled and balanced life.

When you give yourself these gifts, you’re not only improving your own well-being but also becoming better equipped to show up for others. After all, the most remarkable gift you can give the world is the best version of yourself.

So, take a moment today to reflect on what you need most—and give yourself that gift. You deserve it.

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Kevin Eikenberry is a recognized world expert on leadership development and learning and is the Chief Potential Officer of The Kevin Eikenberry Group. He has spent over 30 years helping organizations across North America, and leaders from around the world, on leadership, learning, teams and teamwork, communication and more.

Twice he has been named by Inc.com as one of the Top 100 Leadership and Management Experts in the World and 100 Great Leadership Speakers for Your Next Conference. The American Management Association named him a “Leaders to Watch” and he has been twice named as one of the World's Top 30 Leadership Professionals by Global Gurus. Top Sales World has named him a Top Sales & Marketing Influencer several times, and his blog has been named on many “best of” lists. LeadersHum has named him one of the 200 Biggest Voices in Leadership in 2023.

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