being other focused

I’m not a swan expert, but if I watch them, I don’t see them worrying about other swans (unless a mother with her young).  I mean, look at this picture – the swans are “a swimming” on their own – focused on their surroundings and their needs.  Given that observation, they aren’t a good model for our task today.

But hey, we are working on the 12 Days of Christmas theme here, and it is Day 7.  If you missed the start or the premise of the 12 (Leadership) Days of Christmas, you can find it and get completely caught up with days 12-8 here.

Let’s get on with your task – and when completed – your gift to yourself and your team. Ask yourself these questions . . .

On balance, how often is my focus on others, versus myself?

How would being more focused on others benefit my team, my organization, and ultimately myself?

What could I do right now to both put my focus on others, and show it through my actions?

There is much that could be written about how important this is, and how hard it is at the same time.  Being able to place others ahead of ourselves is what servant leadership is all about. In the end, leadership isn’t about us – it is about others and the goals we are trying to achieve.

As you understand this and are able to live it, at least some of the time, you give a tremendous gift to your team, your organization, and yes, yourself.

Answer the questions above and take action on them.

 

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Kevin Eikenberry is a recognized world expert on leadership development and learning and is the Chief Potential Officer of The Kevin Eikenberry Group. He has spent over 30 years helping organizations across North America, and leaders from around the world, on leadership, learning, teams and teamwork, communication and more.

Twice he has been named by Inc.com as one of the Top 100 Leadership and Management Experts in the World and 100 Great Leadership Speakers for Your Next Conference. The American Management Association named him a “Leaders to Watch” and he has been twice named as one of the World's Top 30 Leadership Professionals by Global Gurus. Top Sales World has named him a Top Sales & Marketing Influencer several times, and his blog has been named on many “best of” lists. LeadersHum has named him one of the 200 Biggest Voices in Leadership in 2023.

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